JWI set to honor breast cancer survivor
By CAROLYN BLACKMAN Staff Reporter
The Canadian Jewish News - October 1999
TORONTO - When Carol Ann Cole, then a two-year breast-cancer
survivor, saw pewter "worry hearts" in a Nova Scotia gift store in 1994,
she never dreamed that these hearts would lead to an initiative that, to
date, has raised $800,000 for cancer research. Cole, 53, Jewish Women
International of Toronto's 1999 Woman of the Year, had lost her mother
to the disease just 11 months after they had both been diagnosed. She
saw the hearts - designed to soothe the holder during stressful times -
and bought 25 to pass out to cancer patients to hold while receiving
treatments. She eventually gave away 117 hearts. Her idea was so
successful, she took early retirement from her executive position at
Bell Canada, and sold the hearts full time to raise funds for
breast-cancer research. "I convinced the local manufacturer, Oceanart
Pewter, to change the name of the hearts to Comfort Hearts, repackage
them, dedicate the project to my mother, and earmark the proceeds to
cancer research, and they said 'yes.'
"The Comfort Heart" initiative was born. It turned out that the
owner's sister was a cancer survivor, says Cole. The hearts, which are
impressed with a thumbprint, sell for $10 -$6 goes to research. "When
someone rubs that thumbprint, it gives them comfort and hope, and serves
as a constant reminder that they are not alone". They can think of the
person that gave them the heart, or of the people to whom they've given
other hearts. I send a note with each heart ordered, so there is a
personal touch to it. "If I know someone is having a treatment, or needs
a morale boost, I tell them that I'll give my own comfort heart a rub;
it helps emit positive feelings". There is a lot of power in positive
thinking. People dwell too much on the negative. They are happier if
they can force themselves to focus on positive thoughts. It's natural to
have a pity party, but people have to eventually think positively. It
makes the ordeal a lot easier. "Comfort Hearts, she says, are one small
way to join together in the struggle against cancer and other challenges
by gaining strength from each other".
The hearts can be worn on a chain or ribbon around the neck, or can be
used as a keychain. They can also be engraved to commemorate a special
occasion. Cole, who in 1998 received the Canadian Cancer Society's The
Terry Fox Citation of Honor and was listed on Maclean's (magazine) honor
roll of 12 outstanding Canadians, has also won the Women of Distinction
Award from the Halifax YWCA. "When I was told that I was being honored
by Jewish Women International, I felt quite humbled. It is an honor that
they have reached out beyond the Jewish community," she says. Cole will
receive the award at the organization's 43rd annual Covenant Breakfast,
to be held Oct. 31 at the Toronto Marriott Eaton Centre Hotel. Covenant
Breakfast chair is Emma Lieberman
